5 Things That Aren’t As Magical As You Think They Are

When we first start getting into the realm of magic, everything is so exciting. We’re exploring an entirely new world that we’d only ever dreamed of, we’re learning a ton about magic, and energy, and spirits, we’re adopting a whole new worldview into our lives that can elevate everything into the realm of the spiritual. It can be intoxicating!

It can also be incredibly misleading. 

Often when we’re in this phase (and sometimes well past it) we see magic and spiritual reasoning everywhere. In some cases, this is a very good thing. Being able to identify that a spirit is in your house and making you feel all moody is way better than having no clue what’s going on and just staying moody. In other cases, it’s not so great. We ascribe spiritual and magical significance to things that are really just very mundane occurrences or, even worse, we cover up legitimate problems by wishing it away with some kind of magical reasoning that doesn’t actually help us find a solution.

I totally get this. It’s tempting to see magic literally everywhere when you’re first starting out. It is everywhere! But that doesn’t mean that the mundane world doesn’t also still exist and affect us in a very real and very tangible way. We live on planet Earth and this world does not stop being exactly what it has always been because suddenly we know about magic.

We can’t live in only one realm. As witches it’s our calling to walk with a foot in each of these realms. The mundane and the spiritual walk hand in hand and it is up to us to learn to properly tell when a problem needs a magical solution, and when it needs a mundane solution. To help clear up this murky subject, today we’re going to talk about 5 situations in which focusing on the mundane world gives you a huge upper hand.

1. Mental health problems

This is, by and large, the most insidious item on this list. The reason is that people who are mentally unhealthy are much more susceptible to self-deception, being taken advantage of by other people, and not recognizing that they aren’t improving. In the VAST majority of cases, mental illness is NOT a purely spiritual problem and it cannot be treated with only spiritual means. Depression, anxiety, hallucinations, depersonalization, and dissociation are not signs that you are “too spiritually sensitive for the modern world”. It’s a sign that something is wrong either on a physical/chemical level, or on a psychological level and you must get these aspects diagnosed and treated FIRST.

Now, this is not to say that taking care of yourself spiritually can’t improve your mental state. It absolutely can. But it needs to be in addition to a treatment plan and professional help that suits your needs and what you want for your life.

On top of this, taking a kid with ADD or ADHD and saying they’re a “starseed” or something and using that as an excuse not to treat them is pretty screwed up. Ok, so maybe they are spiritually different, who am I to say they’re not, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t still have ADHD! And it sure as hell doesn’t mean that their ADHD isn’t going to totally wreck their life, impact their self-image and self-worth deeply, mess up their studies and future prospects, and make them feel as though they’re somehow kinda broken. Does this mean that they should immediately be medicated for their ADD/ADHD? Not necessarily. Medications work great for some people, and not so great for others. But there are tons of ways to manage ADD and ADHD without the use of prescription medication and these avenues should be discussed and agreed upon with a qualified doctor. Ignoring a problem that’s damaging a person just because you think it has spiritual reasoning doesn’t actually help them in any way!

2. Physical ailments

In the same vein, physical problems cannot be wished away by giving it some spiritual significance. Sure, occasionally a spiritual problem can cause physical symptoms like headaches but if you’ve cleansed and banished and that persistent pain isn’t going away, maybe it’s time to see a doctor! 

Likewise, you cannot cure everything that ails you with essential oils. In fact, essential oils are pretty dangerous and can really hurt you. Herbal treatment of small issues like a headache, a stomachache, etc may be entirely possible but even in this, you should take great care. Herbs and foods can have interactions with medications and conditions that you may have and you must do thorough research into these possible interactions before you begin taking any herb. 

And if you have a serious medical condition and you’re trying to figure out how can cure it with herbal or natural means, be very skeptical. Do your homework and look into the scientific and medical literature, NOT the homeopathic/herbal/spiritual literature. Do not stop taking any drugs that you’re on without the consent and help of your doctor. And definitely do not believe some scammer who tells you that they can cure you overnight when the full force of modern medicine has not succeeded. 

3. Faux “signs” from the universe

If you’re prone to paranoia, this one is for you. Not everything is a sign from the universe! In fact, a huge majority of things are probably not signs from the universe. Signs and omens do happen but not every negative thing that happens in your life has to have significance. Sometimes stuff just happens!

Often, these negative experiences are more of a problem of attention. You’re looking for the negative and, as tends to happen when you look for something, you find it. Start working on having a more positive focus and stop assuming that the universe is constantly mad at you and admonishing you like you’re somehow screwing up. Trust me, the universe is very neutral on most matters. It’s simply showing you what you’re looking for.

4. Weird dreams

This is another one where yes it can be spiritual but that doesn’t necessarily mean that it is. Dreams are a very strange subject. Plenty of people, witches and otherwise, have premonitions in their dreams. I will not dispute that at all. Some people have premonition dreams frequently, others infrequently or perhaps even only once or twice in their lives. Some people never have them. If you’re prone to having them a lot, it gets much easier to tell the difference between a psychic dream and a non-psychic dream but what about the people for whom it’s infrequent?

It can be really hard to differentiate between the two but if you suspect you might be having these kinds of dreams, you should definitely start a dream journal. This will allow you to track the intensity of your dreams, the subjects of your dreams, how much recall you have, etc. In all likelihood, when you start tracking it you’ll notice patterns and any psychic dreams that you have will stick out from that pattern like a sore thumb.

It’s also important to remember that sometimes weird and very vivid dreams just happen. Did you know that it’s incredibly common for mothers to dream about their children dying? These dreams don’t mean that their kids are actually going to die! Dreams are a way for our brains to process our daily lives, build new neural pathways, and also prepare us for situations that we have yet to encounter.

This is what nightmares are. You can think of them as night time stress simulations, your brain picks something that you’re afraid of or worried about and exposes you to it in order to build a tolerance for it so that in the event that it should happen in real life it doesn’t completely ruin you. In a healthy individual, this is not a bad thing! It makes you more stress hardy over time. This is why we all dream about our loved ones dying, screwing up a major presentation or assignment, ending up in horrifyingly embarrassing situations, and more. These dreams aren’t premonitions about your impending failure or doom, they’re your brain running worst-case scenario simulations to try and ease the shock and stress of the potential disaster that you’re so worried about. 

Thank your brain for trying to prepare you and put your worry aside. (Seriously, put the worry down, the more you worry the more of those nightmares you’ll probably have!)

5. Vaguely spiritual things random people say about you

Just because someone says you’re special/magical/spiritually “different”/etc doesn’t mean that they actually know what the hell they’re talking about. Sure, some people are sensitive but that doesn’t make this any less creepy. 

Why is this creepy, you ask? This tactic is a very obvious power play and one that is used far, far too often in pagan and witch circles. You meet someone, they tell you how special and magical you are and you become absolutely enthralled with them (because we all love feeling special), then you spend more time with them and as you do so, they get their hooks in you. Over time, the special feeling becomes the carrot that rewards the behaviors they want from you (whether it’s your attention, obedience, sexual favors, etc.) and any non-compliant behaviors are met with a stick in the form of verbal abuse, withdrawing their affection, telling you they might have been “mistaken” about your special-ness, and so on. This cycle is incredibly abusive and while some perpetrators are aware of what they’re doing, many continue abusing others in this way without realizing that what they’re doing is horrible. 

That’s why the whole “you’re so magical and special” move is creepy. It’s not because you’re not those things, it’s because of the potential for that to lead down a very dark and very dangerous road. Will every person who says these things to you be abusive? No, definitely not. If you don’t already know the person well though it can show a lack of awareness about how inappropriate those kinds of comments can be and they’re likely to be tolerant of or unaware of abusive behaviors when they encounter them.

Now, if someone you know well and are close with tells you their thoughtful and honest opinion of your spiritual state, that’s another matter. People who have already proven themselves trustworthy, kind, and healthy for you can say these sort of things without it needing to be a red flag. Just watch out for strangers or acquaintances who pull this move.

These are only a few examples of the ways that the magical and mundane can be mistaken for each other. There are tons of other pitfalls in this realm but with a little education and a keen eye for spotting misinformation you can avoid all of these issues and keep yourself safe, healthy, and grounded in reality with no problem!


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  1. This comes up at least once a week in at least one of my Facebook groups. Usually it’s asked by someone new to the craft but not always. I got to the point about a year ago that I just quit commenting on these posts and eventually all then left Facebook all together. I am so thankful that you took the time to write and post this! It is so important for everyone not just "newbies" to hear and understand this, not just as a side note but deep within their core. So thanks again for talking about it!

  2. This is a very good article! I have been a victim of the "your so special, goddess has sent you to us" when I was first learning and growing! They wanted me for a sexual reason for magic. At first I didn’t understand but later I caught on when my boyfriend started having accidents and bad anger issues. They wanted me away from him. I finally intuitively caught on by other actions and words that they were definitely trying to influence me to leave him. They were always talking about sex magic with me and giving me lots of stones…
    I finally learned how to shield myself and stopped being so gullible.

  3. This is exactly what I needed to read today. (And nope, not calling it a sign!) I’ve been struggling to reconcile magick and spirituality with the mundane everyday stuff that happens and have been beating myself up internally for not being ‘more spiritual’…for still using modern medicine, for not believing that magick and manifestation can cure everything that ails me. Thank you so much for bringing it back to reality and helping me see that I can balance both worlds. 💜

  4. This is a really good list! I would like to point out though with the Mental Health point, while I do agree in a general sense it is also important to remember cultural differences. In New Zealand where I’m from, back in the days before Colonization, our tohunga (priests and spiritual workers) and matakite (seers) were able to see their and others’ ancestors, work with them and converse with them. This gift started quite young and they were trained to use it properly. These days, our young people who display this ability are immediately labelled as "ill" and relegated to a western medical system that doesn’t understand them and often causes more problems than it solves.
    So yes, magic is not the be-all-end-all cure for mental health problems, and yes, some mental illness symptoms are not necessarily an indication of spiritual power, however I think it is important to remember other cultural perspectives that don’t necessarily fit into the Western world view.

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